What I want in a boyfriend is when I am talking or telling a story if you can’t say anything nice don’t say anything at all just nod so I know you are listening or make me happy and pretend to be interested. If I had a bad day at work don’t criticize and tell me for it like saying “If you learned to get alone with people better it could be different.” Or “That’s why people don’t like you” I just want my man to insure me everything will be ok, things will get better. I need someone tell me about my faults in a story I just told. If you want to do that find someone else who wants correction on their actions.

I don’t want to be afraid to tell my boyfriend how I feel. I should not have to worry that my feelings are not worthy of your ears. If you say, “Well you say that all the time.” Then shouldn’t you think that’s something you should work on? Or shouldn’t I realize that it’s never going to get better? Why live in a situation where neither person is happy. One can’t stand what the other one does and doesn’t care if they’re upset. And the other one is miserable and can’t say tell the other person without getting yelled at and getting their feelings dismissed.

I want to see that I am loved and be told that I am loved. I want a gentlemen someone who will open a door for me when we are out. Someone who will hold me tight, who doesn’t want to let go. Not someone who could care less if they hold me, who thinks just because they have me they don’t have to try. My love should be won over and over not just once and done. People keep playing the lottery even though they already won a little bit because they know that eventually they could win a lot more. Treat my love like the lottery because there is always more to win.
Everyone’s feelings matter. If the person you’re with doesn’t think your feelings matter then something needs to happen. Either they grow up and learn that your feelings do matter and should to them if they really love you or it needs to come to an end because they have some growing up to do. There is someone out there for everyone you will find your true love eventually. There might be a few bumps in the road but no one should make you feel less than or belittle you over the things you do or say.

I think when men say “Why do I need to do whatever it takes to make you happy? Just because you are a woman?” should be slapped that shows you have no respect for the woman you are with. It makes me so mad that some men think that they shouldn’t have to do whatever it takes to make their woman happy. Especially those women who would be happy with free things like a picnic or watching a movie of her choice or a walk while holding hands through the park. Why is it so hard for a man to take time out of their day to do some of these things? That’s not the only things that they can do that is free there are so many things that are free that would make their woman happy.

I want someone who will take me on a picnic and go on a walk while holding my hand through the park. When I drop several hints that I want to do things I shouldn’t have to wait 3 years and I still have to be the one to drive us to do it. You should make a mental note and take me on a special date. That means the man drives because it is not the same when I have to drive to do what I want. It would mean more if my man would take me to do something I suggested.